Save our kids

The Sunday Times
14 February 2016

Family Court of Australia CEO Richard Foster told Federal Parliament this week our family courts deal with 200,000 adults each year, but they have no idea of how many – or how badly – children are affected by their decisions. On February 2, the Senate was in no doubt – it took the extraordinary step of calling on the Government to acknowledge that thousands of children are being harmed by our family law system, and to implement a new, non- adversarial system.

This followed closely on the heels of news that the United Nations had censured the Family Court of WA for violations of human rights, and that a brave teenage girl – the survivor of a murder- suicide – had told the WA Coroner how “the Family Court completely failed us”. The Senate has called for simple, important things: child protection; gender equality; a new, non- adversarial system to resolve family separation.

Surely, for kids’ sake, it’s time?

For the children

The West Australian
2 February 2016

Why does Federal Circuit Court Chief Judge John Pascoe, on being made a Companion of the Order of Australia (AC) last week, suggest to ABC News that more judges and more money are the solution for a family court system that is causing immense harm to tens of thousands of children?

More judges won’t make family courts less adversarial. More money won’t make them affordable to the vast majority of Australian parents. And reducing court cases from three to two years won’t stop thousands of children from being harmed for life. The harm is done in the first few months, when children are wrongly left with abusive parents, or wrongfully removed from good ones — by a court trying to address matters in which it lacks expertise.

This week’s motion before the Australian Senate, calling for major family reform and a new, non-adversarial system, comes not a moment too soon.

Landmark Senate decision may transform family courts

In a landmark decision this week, the Senate passed a Motion that could lead to thousands of Australian children being spared the harmful ordeal of family court proceedings. Moved by Victorian Senator John Madigan, with the cross-bench support of Senators Day, Leyonhjelm, Lambie, Lazarus, Muir and Wang, the Motion called on the government to undertake a “root and branch” review of Australia’s family courts and to implement a new, non-adversarial system, as recommended by a comprehensive 2003 cross-party report on Australia’s family court system.

“This is an historic moment for all of us fighting for change in the Family Court,” Senator Madigan said. “The government is now on notice that the Senate recognises there are deep and significant problems in the Family Court that must be addressed as a matter of urgency.”

Australia’s family courts have been under intense scrutiny in recent weeks after the United Nations made the unprecedented announcement that our family courts had violated the human rights of a father and son by “arbitrary interference” into their family life, while Federal Circuit Court Chief Judge Pascoe made renewed calls for more family court judges to address the years-long court proceedings faced by most separating families and their children. Family Court Chief Judge Bryant told ABC radio that the current situation was “bad for the parents” and “bad for the children”.

Australia’s Family Law Reform Coalition agreed that the family courts were causing enormous, avoidable harm to thousands of children but said that appointing more judges was not the solution. “If a medical procedure is found to be harming children, we don’t just put on more doctors to do more of the same. We find an alternative – urgently,” said spokesperson Dr David Curl.

“More judges won’t make family courts less adversarial. More money won’t stop them being unaffordable to the vast majority of Australian parents. And reducing court cases from 3 to 2 years won’t stop tens of thousands of children from being harmed for life. The harm is done in the first few months when children are wrongly left with abusive parents, or wrongfully removed from good ones – by a court not competent to tell the difference,” Dr Curl said.

“The Senate’s decision this week sent out a powerful message: Australian families desperately need the government to implement its own 2003 recommendations to create a new, non-adversarial system – for the sake of our children. We can’t afford to wait 10 years for some Royal Commission to look back at the untold damage caused to our children and to our society by a family court system that was never fit for purpose and that operated without proper scrutiny for half a century.”

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The Family Law Reform Coalition is an Australia-wide association of groups and individuals working towards major family law reform in Australia and throughout the world. For further information, or for a copy of the “Children in Crisis” policy paper, visit familylawreformcoalition.org

Australia’s Family Courts on Trial

A major review and reform of Australia’s family court system is the goal of one of the first motions due for debate as parliament resumes this week in Canberra. Moved by Victorian Senator John Madigan, the Senate Motion has been co-signed by cross-bench Senators Day, Leyonhjelm, Lambie, Lazarus, Muir and Wang.

“We urgently need to reform the system,” said Senator Madigan. “Too many families, too many children, are being deeply harmed by the current system. It’s slow, unaffordable and divisive. That’s no way to deal with the trauma of family separation.”

This debate comes on the heels of renewed calls for more family court judges, from the Chief Judges of both the Family Court of Australia and the Federal Circuit Court, to address the years-long delays in court proceedings faced by most separating families and their children.

“The best outcome for children is for cases to be dealt with within hopefully six months of filing so they can be in and out within a 12-month period,” said Federal Circuit Court Chief Judge John Pascoe, AC.

Last week, Chief Judge Pascoe used his Australia Day acceptance speech to call for more family court judges. In expressing concern that the current system was leaving women vulnerable and children at risk, he joined Family Court Chief Judge Bryant who, last October, told ABC radio that the family courts were at the forefront of fighting domestic violence and that the current system was “bad for the parents” and “bad for the children”.

Australia’s Family Law Reform Coalition agreed that the family courts were causing enormous, avoidable harm to thousands of children but said that appointing more judges was not the solution. “If a medical procedure is found to be harming children, we don’t just put on more doctors to do more of the same. We find an alternative – urgently,” said spokesman Dr David Curl.

“More judges won’t make family courts less adversarial. More money won’t stop them being unaffordable to the vast majority of Australian parents. And reducing court cases from 3 to 2 years, or even 12 months, won’t stop tens of thousands of children from being harmed for life. The harm is done in the first few months, or even weeks, when children are wrongly left with abusive parents, or wrongfully removed from good ones – by a court not competent to tell the difference,” Dr Curl said.

“Australian families desperately need the government to implement its own 2003 recommendations to create a new, non-adversarial system – for the sake of our children. We can’t afford to wait 10 years for some Royal Commission to look back at the untold damage caused to our children and to society by a family court system that was never fit for purpose and that operated without proper scrutiny for 50 years.”

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The Family Law Reform Coalition is an Australia-wide association of groups and individuals working towards major family law reform in Australia and throughout the world. For further information, or for a copy of the “Children in Crisis” paper, see: https://familylawreformcoalition.org/

Family Courts give kids Fatherless Christmas

And Motherless Christmases
Alice Springs News
16 December 2015

Sir – Tens of thousands of Australian children are being harmed, and many will spend this Christmas without one of their parents and other family members, as a direct result of our harmful, adversarial family court system.

This is one of the conclusions of the new “Children in Crisis” report just released by the Family Law Reform Coalition and backed by independent Senator for Victoria, John Madigan, who says too many families are being harmed by the current system.

Recent announcements reveal that Australia’s family courts are themselves in crisis: head of Australia’s Family Court, Chief Justice Bryant, who said on her 2004 appointment that “her top aim is to win public respect for the court”, recently took the unusual step of going public with her plea for an extra $17m.

The solution, though, is not to give our family courts more money. All that will do is ensure that our children are traumatised for perhaps 1½ years instead of two or three.

Many children will still be left in abusive environments for extended periods, and many more will still be wrongly forced to lose the genuine connection with a loving parent, often with half of their entire family, that’s so important to their well-being.

The current system is unsustainable; its financial, and human, costs are unacceptable. We need a new system, such as a national Family Commission, that’s not adversarial and that provides quick, affordable solutions for the majority of families – with a proper Court to back that up swiftly where there is genuine abuse or domestic violence or a failure to abide by its rulings.

Tragically for so many children, similar recommendations were made in a major government report back in 2003, but they’ve been ignored by successive governments.

New studies since then have consistently shown the critical importance of children being able to maintain proper relationships with both of their parents after separation in the vast majority of families.

Our family courts are supposed to be looking after ‘the best interests’ of children. But instead they’re leaving, in their wake, a trail of children and parents whose lives have been ruined; a litany of bankruptcies and suicides; and thousands of children who will not be sharing Christmas this year with a parent who loves them.

Too many children harmed by family courts, says Senator

Tens of thousands of Australian children are being harmed, and many will spend this Christmas without one of their parents and other family members, as a direct result of our harmful, adversarial family court system. This is one of the conclusions of the new “Children in Crisis” report just released by the Family Law Reform Coalition.

“We urgently need to reform the system,” said Senator Madigan, speaking after the launch of the ‘Children in Crisis’ report at Parliament House, Canberra. “Too many families, too many children, are being deeply harmed by the current system. It’s slow, unaffordable and divisive. That’s no way to deal with the trauma of family separation.”

Recent announcements reveal that Australia’s family courts are themselves in crisis: head of Australia’s Family Court, Chief Justice Bryant, who said on her 2004 appointment that “her top aim is to win public respect for the court”, recently took the unusual step of going public with her plea for an extra $17 million; while Chief Judge of the Federal Circuit Court, John Pascoe, is said this past week to have been “seriously considering” closing the Court registries in Parramatta and Wollongong.

“The solution is not simply to give our family courts more money,” said Dr David Curl, spokesman for the Family Law Reform Coalition. “All that will do is ensure that our children are traumatised for perhaps 1½ years instead of 2 or 3. Many children will still be left in abusive environments for extended periods, and many more will still be wrongly forced to lose the genuine connection with a loving parent, often with half of their entire family, that is so important to their lives and to their well-being.”

“The current system is unsustainable; its financial, and human, costs are unacceptable. We need a new system, such as a national Family Commission, that’s not adversarial and that provides quick, affordable solutions for the majority of families – with a proper Court to back that up swiftly where there is genuine abuse or domestic violence or a failure to abide by its rulings.”

Independent Senators John Madigan, Bob Day, Ricky Muir, Zhenya Wang, David Leyonhjelm, Glenn Lazarus and Jacqui Lambie joined forces to co-sign a motion for the Senate’s final sitting day before Christmas, calling on the Government “to undertake a root-and-branch review of the family law system” and to create a new system that’s not adversarial and has a genuine focus on the welfare of children.

Both the Senators and the Family Law Reform Coalition highlighted the fact that, 12 years on, the key recommendation of the government’s own 2003 report “Every Picture Tells a Story” – that a non-adversarial system was essential for the best interests of children – had not been implemented by successive governments.

New studies since then have consistently shown the critical importance of children being able to maintain proper relationships with both of their parents after separation in the vast majority of families. And, in one of the largest investigations ever conducted into the relationship between childhood trauma and future health and well-being, the US Centre for Disease Control’s Adverse Childhood Experiences study, has shown how children subjected to extreme trauma, such as that of an adversarial family separation, have a higher lifetime risk of both mental and physical illness, as well as self-harm and suicide.

“If we don’t start to take care of the mental health of our children exposed to family separation, the cost to society is going to be catastrophic,” said Jasmin Newman, member of the Family Law Reform Coalition’s Advisory Council.

“Our family courts are supposed to be looking after ‘the best interests’ of children,” said Dr Curl. “But instead they’re leaving, in their wake, a trail of children and parents whose lives have been ruined; a litany of bankruptcies and suicides; and thousands of children who will not be sharing Christmas this year with a parent who loves them.”

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The Family Law Reform Coalition is an Australia-wide association of groups and individuals working towards major family law reform in Australia and throughout the world. For further information, or for a copy of the “Children in Crisis” paper, see: https://familylawreformcoalition.org/

For information on Senator Madigan’s campaign for family law reform, see: http://ourchildrenourfuture.info/

The Forgotten Victims of Domestic Violence

The Weekend Australian
26 September 2015

Violence against women is unacceptable and must be stopped. It is, by definition, a gender issue. But to make this synonymous with domestic violence is disrespecting to many. And I don’t just mean for men, real or otherwise. I am thinking of children who experience domestic violence, each and every day.

In Australia, tens of thousands of children in divided families experience one of the worst forms of child abuse and domestic violence. They are controlled and coerced by one of their parents into rejecting (and even made to feel fearful of) their other parent. Children are manipulated into hating their mother or father.

The harm to these children is lifelong. Many even attempt suicide as a direct consequence (as do many of their parents, having lost contact with children they love). Let’s not forget these vulnerable and voiceless victims of domestic violence.

Domestic Violence: Beyond a Gender Agenda

Alice Springs News
22 September 2015

Sir – In his first TV interview as Prime Minister, Malcolm Turnbull defined “domestic violence” as “violence against women”. Understandable, perhaps. But where does that leave the rest of us? And I don’t just mean men, real or otherwise.

I’m thinking of Aussie kids who experience regimes of domestic violence, each and every day, according to the definition that should count, our Family Law Act: “violent, threatening or other behaviour by a person that coerces or controls a member of the person’s family, or causes the family member to be fearful”.

In Australia alone, tens of thousands of children of divided families experience one of the worst forms of child abuse and domestic violence – even if it doesn’t meet our PM’s more popular definition: they are controlled and coerced by one of their parents into rejecting (and are often made to feel fearful of) their other parent – and, usually, half of their extended family and friends too.

They are manipulated into hating their dad or their mum, so that their other parent doesn’t have to endure shared parenting with an ex they now despise. The harm to these children is life-long; many even attempt suicide as a direct consequence (as do many of their parents, having lost contact with kids they love).

Please, Prime Minister, don’t forget these even-more-vulnerable and voiceless victims of domestic violence. Domestic violence hurts us all. The time has come to transform how our society helps children, and their parents, when families separate. Our kids deserve better too.